I really don't know why I sat down with a topic like such, to write a blog post about.
Well then let us get right to it, shall we
Always have we thought that we love 'somebody' or 'something', never have we treated love as an individual?
Okay so next time my friends, you are out there with your girl, notice how suddenly everything changes and the air is so sweet suddenly. Oh! you are in love.
Love is an emotional state of mind, mostly caused due to the release of a beautiful cocktail of hormones in our brain and body. And you suddenly feel that the air around you is filled with something lovely, heck no, the air was always lovely, it is just today that you really noticed.
Love is an emotional state within you really, you associate it with a person, animal, thing, but it really is you that is love. If only you could always be that blissful. Shivam bhai, my roommate is in a constant struggle to give his love a meaning that is greater than the definition I just gave love - a bloody chemical cocktail, creating a mess in our brains. You might have a friend like him in your life too. The 1st love affair and he is flying the friendly skies already.
And we have this cat "Louie". She is an introvert as most cats are, and she doesn't care, all she wants is food when she needs it, as cats normally are. Yes! It is a well documented and researched fact that cats don't develop any special connection to their masters and do not really develop a sense of security around their masters. What all this means is, cats do not really give any shit to who gives them food, or if the food giver is around them to protect them.
But all of us here have developed an inner sense of attachment with her. We joke around, fool around, but can't see her take a fall. Satyam my roommate said, we see our emotions reflected in their eyes (yea i know the life of pi). This was so true. We, humans, are so similar and so we judge others by putting ourselves in their place. But with animals, this doesn't work. It is just us, it is just our emotions we see. So this is really inside us to feel love and loved. It is us who can experience bliss for ourselves.
So my roommate has a crush on someone. All I can really see is his love is an attempt of cooperation of two human beings when they get together and help each other out, which in this case is also chemically supported by his body (by hormones), due to the other person being a girl.
I still wish him and you people the best of luck in your quest for love though.
